Life after thirty can be exciting or it can be dull and boring. It really
is how each one of us perceive ourselves. To some getting older can be
something great and even more rewarding than life was at a younger age. Each
individual life-styles and emotions have a lots to do with making the most
of still being creative and as active at age 40 or 50 or even older.
Some people will have that happy mentality and wonderful outlook about
life regardless to what they have gone or is going through in life.
To some this is not quite easy to do. Most people can not handle what life
has to offer to them because there are those who might not age as gracefully.
There are those who can’t help it if an illness or disease has caused major
problems in their lives. To a certain extent this illness can bring on more
stress and unhappiness to them. Sickness can even make a person become
less friendly and therefore this individual might even experience loss in
friendships, relationships and even marriages.
That is why some people need Therapies in their lives to help them cope with
their illness. By talking to someone who is an expert in this field is good.
This illness can sometimes affect an individual mind, causing the person to
become more complex to deal with, until families and friends sometimes can’t
relate to this person the way they used to. This brings on unhappiness to
those love ones and the individual going through this process. The best
thing for these individuals to do is try praying together, during what their
Therapy or Doctor recommend them to do. All of this will help get that person
to a much better state of mind and those who love this person try to be around
more and offer help and assistance where it is needed. This will bring on a
sigh of relief to the individual because it will make a person feel better just
to know there is someone to care or who cares about them. Always try to keep
this individual smiling and thinking about the good things they have contributed
to life, people and themselves, this will also make things better.
This is all related to the aging process and no matter what situation one may find
after thirty just learn to focus on all the good times and good friends or families
that you do have now. Even if you are not able to perform daily duties or routine
life chores as usual, just try to hang on in there. Remember if you give up and say
this is it, well that’s exactly what will happen, your life will begin to go downhill.
In the meantime, if you focus on the things that you can do at this particular time
do it, do all you are able to do and be happy.
There will be days that you might even think back to when you were in your thirties,
then you will focus on all the things you used to do and can not do now, this will
sometimes cause you to get depressed, try not to make yourself sick or upset over this,
I know this is easy said than done but we all know that as our bodies age, we age also.
The things that was once so easy to perform becomes really complicated now. This make
it disappointing and frustrating to most. What some people have tried is to do the things
that they are able to do, if you enjoyed listening to music and if it doesn’t bother you
now to do that, then do it. Enjoy the type of music you like, it can help relax your mind
and make you feel much livelier.